She is married and has one child.  Nordbak earned a Bachelor of Arts in Interdisciplinary Archaeology from the University of Southern California.  After graduating, she worked in healthcare construction. 
The Scarlett Letters: My Secret of Men in an L.A. Dungeon
In the book she revealed how A-list actors have come to her to play out their sexual fantasies without getting caught.  She led a double life, by day she was a construction manager, but at night she became Mistress Scarlett.